Showing posts with label dying matters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dying matters. Show all posts

Monday, 27 July 2015

Analysis of 4ft Lettering: Dying Matters 2014

After Dying Matters Awareness Week 2014, The Marie Curie Institute undertook an analysis of our display at The Walker Art Gallery. Members of the public were invited to ‘Write or draw what symbolises ‘Life’ and ‘Death’ to you on our Hollywood style lettering’. The aim of the analysis was to gain an insight into peoples’ perceptions of death (and life) in order to inform public engagement techniques to normalise the topic of ‘death’.
 
Here are some excerpts from the findings:

Background

Within the context of Western Society, advances in medical science have simultaneously reduced the incidence of childhood and early adult deaths and extended life expectancy. One result of such advances has therefore been to delay personal experiences of death and dying into midlife (House of Commons Health Committee, 2015). Further, since the foundation of the National Health Service (NHS) in the United Kingdom (UK) in 1948, an increasingly paternal, medicalisation of death and dying has resulted in more deaths now commonly occurring in a hospital setting, which has further removed ‘death’ and ‘dying’ from general society (House of Commons Health Committee, 2015; Mellor and Shilling, 1993).
 
The philosophical underpinnings of the meaning of 'life' and 'death' have been much debated over time. 'Meaning of life' seeks to understand the purpose of human existence within a broader metaphysical context over and above individual human contributions (Horne, 2013). Given the shift towards an individualistic focus this makes ‘meaning of life’ contemplations difficult in a traditionalist/religious vacuum. ‘Meaning in life’ on the other hand could be expressed in terms of subjective views that individuals' lives have purpose through the activities undertaken, which may provide pleasure and happiness (Wolf, 1982; Sigrist, 2015).
 
In May 2014, the National Museums Liverpool (NML) hosted an interactive, public exhibition, consisting of individual lettering, spelling ‘LIFE’ and ‘DEATH’. Members of the public were invited to write comments directly on to the lettering and these comments and illustrations were recorded verbatim and made available to the Marie Curie Palliative Care Institute Liverpool (MCPCIL) at the University of Liverpool to enable a form of qualitative Content Analysis of these public contributions to be undertaken.
 

The aim of this report is to provide a qualitative analysis of these contributions (written and illustration) in order to gain an insight into peoples’ perceptions of death (and life) with the purpose of informing future public engagement techniques to ‘normalise’ the topic of ‘death’. As previously discussed, it is envisaged that contributions will be more focused on ‘meaning in life’ than ‘meaning of life’. Further, those contributions to ‘what symbolises ‘life’’ will include but may not be limited to: purposefulness; happiness; self-actualisation; youthfulness; and health. Similarly, it is envisaged those contributions to ‘what symbolises ‘death’’ will include but may not be limited to: ambiguity; fear; frailty/old age.

Engaging the public

The Bucket Project representatives were present for an hour or more each day that the exhibition was active and they engaged in conversations with the public about the Bucket Project, Dying Matters and the lettering display. They gave a background to the project and inquired whether people would like to contribute. Other people also contributed to the display without personally talking to the representatives, though they may have taken leaflets/newsletters from the display stand.

The results of this content analysis concur with the hypothesis in that the written contributions largely related to ‘meaning in life’ over ‘meaning of life’ reflecting a priority of purpose for individuals over broader human existence perspectives. This focus on the ‘self’ was evident by the significant proportion of written contributions which reflected individuals’ names. Whilst these were reflected on both ‘life’ and ‘death’ lettering they were more frequently noted on the latter, which may support the individualistic ‘meaning in life’ perceptions in a reduced traditionalist/religious framework.
 
Similarly the frequency of the acronyms ‘YOLO’ (i.e. You Only Live Once) on both lettering and ‘YODO’ (i.e. You Only Die Once) on ‘death’ lettering could provide additional support for a shift of focus to ‘meaning in life’, prioritising ‘life’ over ‘death’. These acronyms are examples of the type of language adopted largely within more recent technological communication, and are arguably more synonymous with younger individuals.

A proposed youthful demographic of a proportion of the participants to this exhibition is also supported via the use of ‘emoji’ and ‘hashtag’ punctuation across both ‘life’ and ‘death’ lettering which again reflect more recent language style adopted largely within technological communications.
The hypothesis that written contributions to ‘life’ lettering would incorporate purposefulness, happiness, and self-actualisation comments is also supported by this data analysis. Those written contributions relating to ‘happiness’ were the most frequently reported category within this lettering. ‘Purposefulness’ and ‘self-actualisation’ were largely reflected within the category entitled, ‘purpose to life’. Examples include: ‘Be, all, you can possibly, be’; ‘Fullfill your life to the fullest’; ‘Life is all about people - you are who you spend time with’.  The remaining significant category within the ‘life’ lettering related to ‘Friends/Family’. Within the literature connectedness to others is subsumed within descriptions of potential purposeful activities that may provide happiness. Therefore this category provides additional support that the current focus is towards individualist ‘meaning in life’ perspectives incorporating purposefulness, happiness, and self-actualisation ideologies.
 
Contrary to our earlier hypothesis, however, neither ‘youthfulness’ nor ‘health’ were represented within the written contributions provided for the ‘life’ lettering. However, given that the demographic of the visitors to this exhibition may have included a significant proportion of young people this may explain why these categories did not feature, as the young are synonymous with ‘youthfulness’ and ‘health’, the mindfulness of which may only be encountered when these natural qualities start to ebb.
Whilst the category representing ‘unclassified’ written contributions was reflected within both the ‘life’ and ‘death’ lettering, it was significantly represented in the latter (i.e. 10% - 3 times greater representation within ‘death’ than ‘life’ lettering). Examples of these written contributions include: ‘Look out for drowning people! Lol’; ‘Pomegranete    Izzy’; ‘To enjoy your death... After all they have cookies! Eve S THS’. As these examples show, these comments are diverse and ambiguous in meaning. It could be argued that the greater frequency of this category of comments within the ‘death’ lettering reflects public ambiguity about death and dying, in line with aforementioned literature, and is therefore supportive of the hypothesis that ambiguity will be a feature within the written contributions reflecting perceptions about ‘death’.

Interestingly, however, the illustrations accompanying some of the written contributions followed more traditional categorisation, whereby ‘life’ was depicted by  ‘positivity’ (i.e. chick, happy face, smile, the sun) and ‘love’ (i.e. heart, kiss, people) whilst ‘death’ illustrations represented traditional death imagery (i.e. skull, bomb, flower, ghost), love (i.e. broken heart, heart, people) and sadness (i.e. sad face). Whilst imagery can promote universal messages and meaning, specific detail regarding such meaning can be compromised and limited by the artists’ abilities, which may explain the basic illustrations and their more traditional nature in relative comparison to the written contributions.
Conclusions

In support of the aforementioned literature, the analyses concur that the written contributions focused more so upon ‘meaning in life’ over ‘meaning of life’, suggestive of a reduced focus upon traditional/religious frameworks to support existential meaning. Further, those contributions to ‘what symbolises ‘life’’ included expected categories of: purposefulness; happiness; and self-actualisation. Similarly, those contributions to ‘what symbolises ‘death’’ included ‘ambiguity’. Contrary to our earlier hypothesis neither ‘fear’ nor ‘frailty/old age’ were representative categories within the contributions provided for the ‘death’ lettering. However, comments with more negative connotations were recorded within these contributions.

These results suggest support for the previously argued theory regarding the privatisation of death and dying and ensuing individualist perception and experience afforded death and dying. Future public engagement exercises should aim to reduce the ambiguity regarding death and dying and to find ways to initiate social discourse.
 
For more information on this analysis email amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk

Monday, 18 May 2015

Launch of Dying Matters Awareness Week 2015: Talk, Plan, Live

Today is the national launch of Dying Matters Awareness Week 2015. Here in Liverpool we would like to officially introduce our awareness poster campaign and ‘5 Things To Do Before You Die’ booklet, which contains an overview of key actions you should think about taking in preparation for the future.
 
See our posters below:



 
Find out more about the booklet by viewing the ‘5 Things’ tab. Alternatively, you can download the booklet from our ‘Downloads’ page.
 
 
We have an exciting week ahead with events taking place on Wednesday, Thursday and Saturday (click HERE to see what’s happening!). All of our events are free of charge, so head on down and Talk, Plan, Live!

Monday, 13 April 2015

5 Things To Do Before You Die...

Dying Matters Awareness Week is fast approaching and we have launched 5 icons alongside an information page  that indicate steps you should consider taking before you die.
 
 
 
 
Talk
 
Discuss end of life wishes with loved ones
 
 
 
 
 
 
Write

Make it legal; create a will and power of attorney
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Plan
 
Think about and record your funeral wishes
 
 
 
 
 
 
Share

Consider organ donation and share your decision
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Care

Plan for your future care needs
 
 
 
 
 
Visit our brand new ‘5 Things’ page for more information and links to relevant organisations, services and resources.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

Tuesday, 10 March 2015

Liverpool: Events in March

Don’t miss out on these events coming up this month in Liverpool. Child Bereavement UK is hosting an open day on the 19th March from 2-6pm in Runcorn to inform people of the training and bereavement services available. See the poster below for more information.
 
 
 
On Friday 20th March, the CCG and Liverpool City Council are officially launching ‘The Dying Well Community Charter’, from 1:30-5pm. Please see the poster for further information regarding the location of the event.
 
 
 
The Bucket Project hosted a planning meeting to discuss this year’s Dying Matters Awareness Week, the theme being ‘talk, plan, live’. If you would like to get involved in the next meeting and help us keep the topic of death alive, email amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk.
 
We are proud to announce that you can now find us on Pinterest and Instagram!

Tuesday, 16 December 2014

The Perfect Present

Image from loriannfranks.wordpress.com
At this time each year, everyone is searching for that elusive ‘perfect present’. They want to spoil their loved ones with the latest must-haves and make Christmas special. But maybe the greatest gift you could give this year can’t be bought in a shop – your time. Why not take the time to visit a relative, friend or neighbour who is alone this Christmas. Or pop in to see how someone who has been bereaved is feeling, they could probably do with some support or a listening ear at this difficult time.
 
Sometimes the most meaningful gifts won’t be found under the tree, but could be a much needed phone call or a chat over coffee. A number of people close to me find Christmas a particularly difficult holiday due to recent and not so recent bereavements. We should remember that grief isn’t something that magically disappears and family-oriented holidays can make it all the more prominent, even after years have passed.
 
Image from hbbscounselling.org
Many people don’t know how to talk to someone who is experiencing bereavement and can avoid speaking about the subject altogether as they don’t want to upset or offend that person. It can be daunting but maybe this Christmas we can start a conversation with a person who very much needs it and put our fears aside. Spending time with a loved one can be more rewarding than any gadget or game, so make memories while you can and keep in mind that even the strongest of us need support at times.
 
The Bucket Project would like to wish you all a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. If you are struggling to cope with bereavement there are a number of websites you can visit for advice, listed below:
 

Thursday, 15 May 2014

Day 4: Dying Matters Awareness Week

It is now Day 4 of Dying Matters Awareness Week and we still have a number of exciting events happening across Liverpool! Here are the events for today:
 
 
The Death in Art tour was well received on Tuesday and is extremely interesting. So don’t worry if you missed out on that, come along to the session today from 1-2pm.
 
Our very own Life and Death Café will be taking place from 2:30-4pm. The layout is very similar to a 'Death Cafe', however The Bucket Project are working in partnership with Cheshire Living Well Dying Well to host the event, which encompasses the life element. This is a safe and comfortable environment for people to discuss life and death, whilst enjoying free tea, coffee and cake. You do not need to book for this event so come along and join in, you might just be pleasantly surprised!
 
Don’t forget, the interactive lettering, postcards and Remembrance Tree are available all week in the Walker and Central Library, respectively.
 
For more information, email amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk.

Tuesday, 8 April 2014

Dying Matters Awareness Week 2014

Image from dyingmatters.org
 
Dying Matters Awareness Week is fast approaching, taking place from the 12th – 18th May. We are hosting a number of exciting events throughout the week, in partnership with the World Museum, Walker Art Gallery, Central Library, FACT and Siren to name a few. We will be releasing the details shortly but make sure you follow us on Twitter and like us on Facebook to get the latest updates!

There are a number of family events taking place on the weekend of the 17th and 18th of May from Meet the Mummy! at the World Museum to cookie decorating at The Garden in LEAF @ FACT. All of our events are free and promise to be engaging and a lot of fun.
 
Image from sweetsugarbelle.com
 
Check back here soon for the dates and times of our events! If you would like to get involved or want to know more about The Bucket Project or Dying Matters, please contact us at amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk.

Are you doing anything for Dying Matters Awareness Week? Let us know here #YODO

Wednesday, 12 February 2014

What is a ‘Death Café’?

Image from deathcafe.com

The name ‘Death Café’ can be off-putting to many people as talking about ‘death’ is an extremely taboo subject not only here in the UK but in a number of western capitalist countries across the world.
 
The Death Café is a global initiative developed by Jon Underwood in 2011, taking inspiration from Café Mortel in Switzerland created by sociologist Bernard Crettaz. It is a temporary event that provides a comfortable place to talk about topics relating to death and dying whilst eating nourishing nibbles and cakes which are served alongside tea and coffee (free at our Woolton Death Café).

Image from eatitdetroit.com
 
The image you first associate with this kind of event may be a group of people with a morbid fascination gathered around a table. However this couldn’t be further from the truth. A variety of people from different backgrounds and life experiences attend and discuss a wide range of topics that can be both inspirational and touching.
 
It may not be for everyone; however, it is obvious that there is a need for comfortable and safe spaces for people to talk about death, proven by the growing popularity of this initiative. It may not be easy talking about death and loss but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t. Death happens to everyone and is something we all have in common. A survey conducted by Dying Matters discovered that more than 70% of people are uncomfortable talking about death.

People talking at a Death Café in Portland, USA
(Image from komonews.com)
 
Talking about death doesn’t have to be morbid, it can make you think about how you want to live and what you want to achieve, helping to make the most out of our (finite) lives. Through breaking down the taboo surrounding death together we can be more prepared.
 
If you are interested in finding out more or would like to book a place in our upcoming Death Café on the 24th February, email me at amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk or chat to us on Facebook and Twitter.

If the Death Café isn't for you, email us and let us know ideas and events that you would be interested in.
 

Tuesday, 4 February 2014

World Cancer Day 2014

Image from Asons.co.uk


Today is World Cancer Day and much like The Bucket Project attempts to break down the taboo around discussing death, World Cancer Day attempts to ‘debunk the myths’ surrounding cancer. 

The four myths they highlight are:

We don’t need to talk about cancer
There are no signs and symptoms
There is nothing I can do about cancer
I don’t have the right to cancer care

Image from awarenessdays.co.uk


Here at The Bucket Project we believe it is important for people to be able to openly discuss these issues and be aware that there are services available to help those affected by this disease and their loved ones both physically and emotionally. Sometimes people feel isolated or unsure where to turn when diagnosed with cancer, especially due to the negative public perception which leads to fear and misinformation. 

Across the UK today a number of awareness and fundraising events are taking place, so if you’re in the area, why not check one out? Some examples of events are a cake sale at Grizedale College at Alexandra Square, Lancaster and an Awareness Night at Union Chapel in London. For more details on events near you or to find out more information about cancer, the myths and support, click HERE

Have you been involved in a WCD event? Tell us at @Bucket_Project!

Thursday, 30 January 2014

Death Cafe Woolton

Due to the success of our last Death Café, we have decided to run our next one in the charming No. 8 – Main Street Coffee café, Woolton, L25 5JA on the 24th February 2014. We are very excited about our second event and are proud to be hosting it in such a welcoming and unique venue. It will be a comfortable place where we can have open and honest conversation about death.



As we have mentioned in a previous article, the Death Café is a global initiative stemming from the original Café Mortels in Switzerland, aiming to increase the awareness of death to help people make the most of their lives. There has been a tremendous response to Death Café’s across the country and worldwide, evidencing the need for a comfortable place for people to relax and openly discuss death.

Free Cupcakes at the Death Cafe!
(Image from eatitdetroit.com)

This event is completely free with complimentary sandwiches, cake, tea and interesting conversation! The Café will take place from 4-6pm and we invite you to join us for what will be an intriguing evening.

Book your place now and join the discussion by emailing amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk. We look forward to seeing you there!

In case you are not familiar with Woolton, here is a handy map to help you out:

No.8 - Main Street Coffee, Woolton, L25 5JA
(Google Maps)

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Tuesday, 16 July 2013

"Parting is such tweet sorrow..."



During Dying Matters week in May, Dying Matters asked what your final Tweet would be if you could write it now. We've blogged about what happens to your Twitter acount when you die, but if you could predict your very last Tweet before you die what would it be?

They got back a real mish mash of funny, heartfelt and pop culture responses. A lot of people felt they couldn't top the late Spike Milligan's epitaph of "I told you I was ill". Some of our favourites were:

"Parting is such tweet sorrow"
"You all know I have a small fortune hidden away but you don't know where. Well, I'll tell you. It's in..."
"The coffee pot is cold, the jokes have all been told. Goodbye to all the souls who sailed with me the longer way" (Billy Bragg's 'Goodbye, Goodbye')"

They even had responses from celebrities and MPs such as Stephen Fry and Alistair Campbell.

Search the hashtag #FinalTweets on Twitter to see what other people said.

Even though Dying Matters week is over, our work continues all year round - so we'd like to extend the question: what would your final Tweet be? Let us know over at @Bucket_Project!


Wednesday, 5 June 2013

Before I Die, I Want To...

During Dying Matters week in May, we were very excited to launch something that has never been seen in Liverpool before. We put a chalk wall in an empty shop in the beautiful India Buildings, and asked people to tell us what they want to do before they die.

"Before I Die..." is a project started by artist Candy Chang. She struggled to cope with her bereavement after losing someone close to her, and was looking for a way to channel her grief. She painted the side of an abandoned house with blackboard paint and stencilled it with a grid of the sentence "Before I die I want to________" and left some chalk. People passing by would pick up pieces of chalk and add to the board. By the next day, the board was bursting with people's lift aspirations and wishes of the things they'd like to achieve in their lives. Candy realised she wasn't alone in trying to make sense of her life, and felt a great sense of consolation.

She found that people were asking her to help set one up in their local area, and she began to send out toolkits all over the world. The global Before I Die project was born, with people in all over the world doing their own walls and uploading them to the Before I Die site. There are now over 200 walls in 15 different countries.

We decided that there was no better time to launch one in Liverpool than Dying Matters week. We worked closely with Liverpool Commercial District BID who helped us to secure an empty shop in the beautiful and historic India Buildings on Water Street. Our creative Project Manager Rachael managed to work around the conundrum of not being able to drill an actual chalkboard up anywhere, and made one out of black paper that we could take down and replace when it got full.

We managed to almost fill our wall on the first day it opened, and we noticed that hardly any of the responses related to material things. We'd expected to see "before I die I want to own a Ferrari" or "own designer clothes" but most of what people wrote was about family, happiness and experiences. Some people were reluctant at first to write when gently coaxed by us to come in... but as soon as they had a piece of chalk in their hand they said it had really made them think about the things they'd like to accomplish.

Here are some photos of the two chalk walls we ended up filling before it was closed on 3rd June:









The sign outside our beautiful shop


Mini chalk boards

We have our very own mini site for the chalk wall over at Before I Die, where you can view more photos and a bit about the project: Before I Die: Liverpool

Unfortunately our wall closed on 3rd June. We are currently looking into ways to keep it alive all over Liverpool, and we'd love to hear any ideas if you think you know where we could put one. If you had visited our wall when it was open, what would you have written on there?

Monday, 20 May 2013

Welcome to The Bucket Project




Hello!

Welcome to The Bucket Project's brand new blog. We are a community project based in Liverpool aiming to open up conversations about death, dying and loss, and breaking the last taboo around death.

You can find out more about us and what we do using the links at the top, and you can download our newsletters. If you'd like to join in the conversation, there are links to our Facebook and Twitter in the sidebar. In the coming weeks, this blog will feature write ups of what we've been up to, things we've been thinking about and even some guest blogs - so if you'd like to write for us, get in touch.

Last week we hosted a very successful Dying Matters week here in Liverpool. This week we'll be writing about our fabulous community chalk wall that we launched in India Buildings, our conference and the various other things we got up to... watch this space!