Tuesday, 21 October 2014

Day of the Dead Celebration

Autumn is already upon us, with Halloween fast approaching! Not only is Halloween a celebrated event for many people but Dia de los Muertos or Day of the Dead is too. In Mexico people celebrate the Day of the Dead between October 31st and November 2nd and take this time to remember loved ones who have died. There are musical tributes and altars are set up containing colourful flowers, festive foods and photos of the deceased. This is a social time for many people who gather at gravesides to share stories and celebrate the lives of their family and friends.

Day of the Dead Altar
Image taken from gomexico.about.com
Many countries around the world now celebrate a Day of the Dead inspired event with the popular imagery of decorated skulls and bright colours. This is a direct contrast to the typical imagery associated with death and loss, usually black or dark colours and a sombre atmosphere. This celebration encourages people to celebrate the lives of those who are no longer with us and keep their ‘spirits’ alive through telling stories and bringing family and friends together.

Day of the Dead Skulls
Image from lamariposaimports.com
The Bucket Project would like to invite you to our very own Day of the Dead Celebration on Sunday 2nd November. Join us at Maya Bar (below Lucha Libre) between 4 and 6pm for a tequila toast to our departed loved ones in honour of Dia de los Muertos. Bring along a picture of them to display on our specially designed altar and participate in a Dead Good Game of Cards. This event is completely free and we welcome anyone to attend. Please see the contact details at the bottom of this post to confirm your place!

 
You can find Maya Bar (below Lucha Libre) on the map below: 


96 Wood Street, Liverpool, L1 4DQ
 Book your place now by emailing amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk , alternatively you can phone 0151 801 1444 or message The Bucket Project on Facebook or Twitter.

Thursday, 9 October 2014

Death du Jour: Logo Design

Can you help us out? We are piloting a brand new and exciting event named ‘Death du Jour’, where we use our specially created ‘death cards’ to start conversations around death, dying and loss. Currently, we are in the process of designing a logo for Death du Jour and want to know what you think. Does the logo fit with the theme? What could our strap line be?
 
Below are two examples of proposed logos that we will be putting to a designer. Which is the most effective? How could it be improved? Do you have a different idea entirely? Let us know by commenting on Facebook, replying on Twitter or emailing us directly at amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk.

Here is a stopwatch themed logo:



An alternative cog themed design:

 
 
Get in touch and let us know what you think, bad or good. We want people to know what kind of event this is through the logo and strap line. Would you attend a Death du Jour event? 
 

Thursday, 25 September 2014

End of Year Three!

It has been a while since I last wrote a blog, here at The Bucket Project we have been busy organising events for the Autumn season from introducing our new ‘Death du Jour’ session to planning a fabulous Day of the Dead celebration. The details of these events will be posted here and on social media closer to the time.
 
At long last, we would like to present our End of Year Three Project Report. You can find out exactly what we have been up to over 2013 and 2014, from a Halloween Death CafĂ©, to a jam packed Dying Matters Awareness Week in May. The report is now available on the ‘Downloads’ page of the blog and is an interesting read.
 
 
 
If you like what you see and would be interested in becoming a member of The Bucket Project, email amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk. We will keep you regularly updated with the latest planned events and news, so get involved and help keep the topic of death alive!

Tuesday, 12 August 2014

O Captain, My Captain…

Image from forevermagicmovies.blogspot.com
Many people will have awoken today to find out the upsetting news that actor Robin Williams has died. After suffering bouts of depression, it is suspected that he took his own life in his Californian home yesterday morning. He leaves behind a wife and three children, who our hearts go out to at this difficult time.
 
Robin Williams was best known for his superb talent in acting, allowing him to assume a wide variety of roles, capturing audiences around the world. Some of his most notable and memorable works are Good Will Hunting, Dead Poet’s Society and Mrs. Doubtfire, no doubt favourites of many a family. He was an actor that inspired many people through the characters he played, bringing a certain unique charm that filled you with hope and warmth.
 
Is it odd that we mourn celebrities that we have never personally met? This death will certainly affect a number of people whose only connection with him is watching a film through a television screen. It seems those we so regularly invite into our homes through a film or series become akin to that of extended family. We are also reminded that no one is immune to death, grief and loss, it happens to everyone, even the celebrities we so often idolise. I certainly haven’t escaped without shedding a tear for an actor I have grown up watching, an actor who has contributed to the shaping of my childhood through his portrayal of the genie in Aladdin, to Alan Parrish in Jumanji.
 
Image from cineplex.com
Much like talking about death is a taboo, talking about mental health is somewhat of a taboo in our society as well. Often when people need help the most, they are unsure who to turn to, but there are a number of UK charities that can support people suffering from a wide range of issues. ‘Mind’ is a nationwide service that provides advice, information and support for individuals and families regarding mental health. You can visit their website HERE.
 
There has been an outpouring of grief and remembrance on Twitter over the last 24 hours, with #RobinWilliams and #depression being in the top 10 trending hash tags. He was a kind-hearted man who inspired us in so many ways and will surely be missed by all of those who knew him.


Monday, 4 August 2014

The Great War: On this day in 1914

Image taken from 67notout.com
2014 marks the one hundred year anniversary of the start of World War One. On August 4th 1914 at 11pm, after a failed ultimatum and the invasion of Belgium, Britain declared war on Germany, embarking on a bloody and horrific war that lasted four years. To mark this devastating moment, an artist has created a ‘lights out’ movement, to last for one hour between 10pm and 11pm this evening, where all lights except one or a candle are turned off to reflect on the events that unfolded a hundred years ago. You can find out more here http://www.1418now.org.uk/lights-out/.
 
Almost every living family today will have some form of connection with World War One, whether a grandfather or great-grandfather fought for their country, whatever the link it is still an emotional subject for many people. Every year on the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month we mark the armistice at the end of the Great War with a moment of silence in remembrance of those who sacrificed themselves. This year however, there are a number of events taking place across the UK to encourage people to learn more about World War One and share their family histories.
 
Image from nl.wikipedia.org
Maybe this World War contributed to the taboo surrounding talking about death, dying and loss. With grief and bereavement on such a national scale, it no doubt had an effect on the way that people approached the subject. For many it is difficult to imagine so many loved ones leaving for war, the uncertainty and despair, waiting to hear from your father, brother, husband. However for others, this fear is still very real, with family members fighting in conflicts across the world on a daily basis. A phrase we utter is ‘lest we forget’ though in some ways it seems we already have.
 
 

Thursday, 10 July 2014

Celebrity Bucket List

Cheryl Cole recently revealed her near-death scare after contracting malaria in 2010 prompted her to create a Bucket List of her own. The large rose tattoo that has been the centre of controversy was one of the items on her list, she shared with Graham Norton on his show in June. However, she did give it rather a different name, which we won’t discuss here! The concept is the same, a near death experience encouraged her to start living life to the full and realise that life is short so make the most of it while you can.

Image from elleuk.com

It is easy to get bogged down in the chores and worries of everyday life; I know this from first-hand experience. But creating a Bucket List is a good way of focussing on what we want to achieve in our lives and what would make us happy. Whether you want to travel the world or bake your favourite cake, there’s no time like the present.

One famous Bucket List is that of John Goddard, an anthropologist. He created a list of nearly 130 adventures at the age of 15 and is well on the way to completing them with over 100 currently crossed off! From reading the works of Shakespeare to climbing the highest mountains, he has achieved a number of life goals that many of us can only dream of. Why not create a mini list today and attempt to cross them off by the end of the year?

Image from telegraph.co.uk

We want to know what is on YOUR Bucket List! Let us know on Twitter or Facebook #bucketlist

Monday, 7 July 2014

Death neatly packaged

Here is a though-provoking extract from our April newsletter written by our very own Rachael McKindley about the food industry. 
 
I often wonder how many of the people who aren’t ready to talk about death, are vegetarians? Now, this article is neither for nor against meat eating or vegetarianism. I wanted to write about how we stare death in the face each time we walk in to a supermarket, past a butcher’s window, or pull that neat package of meat from the fridge.
 
Image from howtosurvivealieninvasionnovels.blogspot.com
To survive in life, we need to eat. And a lot of us choose to eat meat as part of our diet. How many of us appreciate that an animal had to die to sustain our life? We actively farm a range of animals to suit our dietary needs. This means animals that are born and bred into a life that consists of them being fed and given shelter, until someone deems them large enough to make a profit. It’s a clinical process that makes money from death. And we (meat eaters) buy in to it.
 
That the nice cut of meat, all neatly packaged, that you might be planning to have for your tea, is only here because an animal gave its’ life. By refusing to acknowledge this, are we disrespecting that animals’ sacrifice? If young children ask what meat they are eating, do you tell them the name of the animal it came from, or do you describe only the food? Is a burger just beef, or is it from a cow? We often try to shield children from death, for fear of upsetting them. Often, it is the adults’ fear that is preventing the child from developing a healthy understanding of where our food comes from.
 
Does it ever cross your mind, when you’re pushing a trolley through the aisles of your local supermarket, how many dead animal bodies you are surrounded by? Why does it horrify some to think of eating road kill? These animals lived natural, wild lives and they died living that life. Why is this worse than breeding and raising animals for the slaughter, just so they can be neatly packaged before arriving in our home? If we ever had to return to our hunter gathering days, would you be able to catch, kill and then skin an animal – to survive? Nowadays, we are in a position to pay someone else to do the farming and butchering. But have we forgotten that this still needs to happen?
 
Image from prlog.com
I think we do the animals that die to feed us a disservice by not honouring their sacrifice. We don’t need to dance around fires whilst chanting and ritualistically slaughtering animals ourselves; let’s just give them an occasional thought, and a thank you; for becoming a delicious meal that helps to sustain us through another day of life. I hope this article hasn’t changed anyone’s eating habits in any way. Though it’s important to note that vegetarians don’t escape guilt-free – many plants will die too, to provide you with those essential nutrients...

You can read more interesting articles like this by downloading our 5th Animal Edition Newsletter from the Downloads Page.