What is a ‘Death Café’?

Image from deathcafe.com

The name ‘Death Café’ can be off-putting to many people as talking about ‘death’ is an extremely taboo subject not only here in the UK but in a number of western capitalist countries across the world.

 

The Death Café is a global initiative developed by Jon Underwood in 2011, taking inspiration from Café Mortel in Switzerland created by sociologist Bernard Crettaz. It is a temporary event that provides a comfortable place to talk about topics relating to death and dying whilst eating nourishing nibbles and cakes which are served alongside tea and coffee (free at our Woolton Death Café).

Image from eatitdetroit.com

 

The image you first associate with this kind of event may be a group of people with a morbid fascination gathered around a table. However this couldn’t be further from the truth. A variety of people from different backgrounds and life experiences attend and discuss a wide range of topics that can be both inspirational and touching.

 

It may not be for everyone; however, it is obvious that there is a need for comfortable and safe spaces for people to talk about death, proven by the growing popularity of this initiative. It may not be easy talking about death and loss but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t. Death happens to everyone and is something we all have in common. A survey conducted by Dying Matters discovered that more than 70% of people are uncomfortable talking about death.

People talking at a Death Café in Portland, USA
(Image from komonews.com)

 

Talking about death doesn’t have to be morbid, it can make you think about how you want to live and what you want to achieve, helping to make the most out of our (finite) lives. Through breaking down the taboo surrounding death together we can be more prepared.

 

If you are interested in finding out more or would like to book a place in our upcoming Death Café on the 24th February, email me at amy.king@mariecurie.org.uk or chat to us on Facebook and Twitter.

If the Death Café isn't for you, email us and let us know ideas and events that you would be interested in.

 

Death Cafe Liverpool

Death Cafe - Halloween 2013

We are proud to announce that The Bucket Project will be hosting Liverpool's first Death Cafe at the Brink, Parr Street, L1 4JN on 31st October 2013.

The objective of a Death Cafe is to increase awareness of death, with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives. It is based on an idea thought up by Bernard Crettaz, a Swiss sociologist who set up Cafe Mortels. His idea has since spread across the globe, evidencing a very real need for a place and opportunity for people to open up and talk about death. 

We will provide a comfortable place to relax and talk, with a hot beverage and a slice of cake. Our Death Cafe takes place at the Brink, which is Liverpool's first "dry pub." The Brink are known for their creative, community approach and put on a wide range of amusing, entertaining, educational and inspirational events - with the Death Cafe being just one of them!

The Brink, Parr Street, L1 4JN

Death Cafe is now an established social franchise that has reached over 3000 participants in around 300 separate Death Cafes all over the world. They are purely run on a voluntary basis by Jon Underwood in East London. He organised the first one in the UK, facilitated by his mum, psychotherapist Sue Barsky Reid, in his own home. It was hugely successful and has grown massively since 2011. You can find more information on Death Cafes by clicking here or have a look at our very own Death Cafe Liverpool page.

Feedback from previous Death Cafes have stated that the experience was "enriching" and "as far from gloom and doom as could be possible." We're hoping to replicate this in Liverpool on Halloween 2013. You can drop in any time from 5.30-7.30pm, but we would suggest arriving at the start to benefit from the whole experience. There will be free hot drinks, a slice of cake and a warm welcome. It's not often you get the opportunity to sit down and have an open conversation about death with other people who want to do the same.

Free cake at our Death Cafe!

So, if you haven't already, you should start making your plans for Halloween 2013. If you're interested in coming along to our Death Cafe and taking part in a global initiative, please email: rachael.mckindley@mariecurie.org.uk. Fancy dress is optional, but encouraged, since we're celebrating All Hallow's Eve, and there may be a prize for the best dressed! It's all free and you'll be among the first to participate in Liverpool's first Death Cafe. So pop in for a cuppa, cake and conversation.

Thank you to Ryan Spence at Five Mil Bleed for producing our Death Cafe Liverpool poster and to Terry McKindley for helping to get the creative juices flowing in the design process.